Thursday Thoughts, Don’t Downgrade a New Mom‘s Experience.

I

I was reading about a comment made to a new mother, that had just delivered her baby and was sharing her story with others. She was recalling what’s helped her with breastfeeding, as well as postpartum.
A message was sent to her concerning the fact that she had no experience and thus shouldn’t be sharing any advice as a new mom.
❌Seriously?!
When a mother has given birth, she has been given an experience like none other. Every experience is it’s own.
To tell a new mother this, is not only demeaning but shows a lack of appreciation for what it means to BECOME a mother. If we as other moms have come to the point that we have to downplay a new mom because we have more “experience”, shame on us! They have just as every right to own motherhood.
When I had Hudson, sharing my story, and what helped me, was a breath of fresh air, hearing other new moms too helped in aiding my postpartum journey.
✨So, point of this is. Be nice to new mamas. Listen and share in their journey. We can all learn something from every moms experience. ❤️


Discover more from Shantelylace

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

Discover more from Shantelylace

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading